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------------------------------------------------------------------ The article is well worth reading, click here to download a PDF version. In Canada, Carolyn Bennett MP was inspired after a presentation about the human givens by Aubrey Davis, So, please don't stop sending the link around - www.humangivenscharter.com - ideas always take time to percolate!
"It was only nine years later", she says, "that I got any relief from the intense trauma following a session of human givens therapy which included the rewind technique. Previously I had received hours and hours of person-centred counselling which had only made matters worse. We would go over and over what had happened to me….we would try to normalise my belief system and try to reframe all my experiences….but still I felt even more hopeless about any permanent relief. Thankfully, in the technique used by the human givens approach, the traumatic memories from the bombing and all the negative body-image/self-worth issues were effectively de-traumatised and I was able to stand back at last and see the bigger picture of my life and its meaning." Sue qualified herself as a human givens therapist and is now working hard with others who have suffered from often intensely traumatic experiences. For many years she has also been involved with The Forgiveness Project, an organisation which works at a local, national and international level to help build a future free of conflict and violence by healing the wounds of the past. By collecting and sharing people’s stories, and delivering outreach programmes, the project aims to encourage and empower people to explore the nature of forgiveness and alternatives to revenge. "The human givens approach has helped me greatly and is very pertinent "Studying the human givens approach gave me the opportunity to challenge many of my 'tyranical' and limited beliefs, my projections, my judgements about 'right' and 'wrong'. It also gave me the opportunity to look at blaming behaviour and victimhood behaviour, and provided the right conditions to get excited about my life again and get excited about making changes and taking lots of responsibility for my actions. A state which I now relish and my life now serves me very well, and has lead me in unbelievable directions and provided me with incredible opportunities, which were bigger and greater than any of my original dreams." It was through her work with The Forgiveness Project that Sue recently met its patron, Archbishop Desmond Tutu. He was in London on 12th May to give the inaugral lecture, 'Is violence ever justified?', of the Project's lecture series. (Featured in the above photo with Sue, who is standing just to Archbishop Tutu's left, is Mary K Blwett from Rwanda who lost 50 members of her family in the genocide there.) "The Archbishop was a lovely man to meet, and very funny, but this hasn't been the only wonderful opportunity that has happened to me since I was injured all those years ago. Working within the Forgiveness Project I speak in prisons, travel and meet people from all cultures. Last year I was also invited to join The Sustainable Peace project in Northern Ireland, Southern Ireland and South Africa, during which time I travelled widely with 15 other people from both sides of the Irish conflict, many of whom had been released from The Maze (Long Kesh) as a result of the Good Friday Agreement. "Exploring the idea of forgiveness is a huge ongoing task which gives me Click here to read more of what Sue's been up to recently. Read Sue's story in full on The Forgiveness Project's website. ------------------------------------------------------------------
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